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| lucrowe | Jun 8 2015, 12:42 AM Post #1 |
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Okay! So I've got a mate and he's just teed up his first proper girlfriend. Couldn't be happier for the bloke, it's about time he got his end in and found somebody he can be with. But now we have a new problem... The dude eludes all his mates now! We shoot hoops together most weekends, get on the squirt and spit rhymes too. This has been going on for years now. We've had mates get a girl before and they ditch us for their girls and it frustrates him and I to no end. All of a sudden, he gets a girl, and he starts evading us! Not answering his phone, not returning my calls/texts, I go around to visit him and he hides in his room with her for hours on end. And now it's just like; wtf bro?! Most obvious conclusion is: he's whipped. Whipped hard. And im getting sick of losing mates to some Dame. I'm wanting to come down hard on him! I get that when you start up with a girl she will require a fair bit of your time, especially in the early days, BUT COME ON?! Put it away for a couple hours and spend some time with your mates. We're the ones who are gonna be there if she ever brakes his heart or we're the ones he's gonna invite to the wedding if they go all the way. We're the ones who've been there for him over all these years. I never actively ditch my mates for my girl. I make time for them in fact, i reserve time out of my busy schedule to keep ties with as many people as possible. Surely he can do the same. So, am I being unreasonable in wanting my boy to put the gun in the holster for a while so we can get some time in? I love him too ya know! Is it a d*** move on my part to come down on him and get some friggen guy time? I was here first after all lol. |
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| + Pyrus | Jun 8 2015, 12:53 AM Post #2 |
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Yes and no. I believe it depends on different factors. You don't want to lose a girl you've recently gotten together with because you want to shoot hoops with your boys, but at the same time, she has to understand that you can't and shouldn't devote 100% of your free time (as in any time outside of work/school) to her – it has to be divided between friends, family, and just alone time. I've been with girls who are completely fine with hanging out at night a couple times a week, and I've been with some that get upset and argue with me if I want to spend one day doing guy things with my guy friends. My friend who's also married literally never hangs out with us anymore. We used to see each other every week, almost every day, and then he got hitched and it all stopped. He's either working/at school or with her. There's no time for us. It's made us, his buddies, quite disappointed, but being in that situation myself, I understand it. I don't need to be around anyone else, nor do I really want to be a lot of the time. After working most of the day, I want to come home and be with my family and relax. They're all I need to be happy right now. Sure, I could have fun with my friends on a day I have off, but I only have 2 days off in a week (if that), so I've got to keep my family happy and safe when I can. I'm slowly losing track of what I've been trying to say so I'll leave at this point. |
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Jun 8 2015, 12:55 AM Post #3 |
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When I hang out with my friends, I bring my girlfriend with me, so we don't really have this problem. She's a part of my friend circle, and they always want her there. |
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| lucrowe | Jun 8 2015, 12:58 AM Post #4 |
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I totally understand that you need to devote a great majority of your time to your girl. I get how it works. I spend lots of time with my girl as well! But even in the beginning we'd at least keep one day separate so we can keep up with our friends. It's important!!!! We have feelings too. We love him, and we have loved him since we were young. You can't just turn your back in that because all of a sudden you have a girl friend. It's a bit of a dog act! |
![]() "I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks *Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha F**ka Named Lucrowe* | |
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| lucrowe | Jun 8 2015, 01:00 AM Post #5 |
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YEAH THIS!!!! He can hang out with everyone as well as her. Just a couple hours a week will do! Maybe he's scared one of us will try and poach her? I dunno. |
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| + Pyrus | Jun 8 2015, 01:10 AM Post #6 |
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I understand what you're saying. For a simple relationship like that, sure, your friend should spend more time with you instead of ducking you like he appears to be doing in your description. That seems suspicious. If he was engaged to the girl or had a child with her, I'd be more willing to cut him some slack as that's hard to do when the kid is really young. Talk to him and tell him your beef. If it's his girl that's causing this rift, and is intent on keeping him all to herself, maybe that's the issue. |
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| lucrowe | Jun 8 2015, 01:20 AM Post #7 |
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Aww he'll hear about it! I'm pretty direct. He knows it lol, maybe that's why he's avoiding me? He don't wanna hear the truth from somebody who ain't afraid to speak it. But even still, I'm not out to shame him. I just want him to make a little time for the boys. We had one mate who was whipped HARD for over 2 years and you should have heard how my mate spoke of that situation! He wasn't happy with it. Now he's going ahead and doing it too? You can't have it both ways! |
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| + Pyrus | Jun 8 2015, 01:31 AM Post #8 |
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No, you can't have it both ways, but it's different when you're in that situation. I'd just talk to him and find out where he's coming from to justify his absence. |
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| + Ssj3vegito96 | Jun 8 2015, 01:35 AM Post #9 |
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I know a couple friends like that. Once they get girlfriends you don't hear from them for a while or they're tied down and can't do anything. It's like...really? Come on Idk if it's a good idea to try and put an end to that because it might end his relationship with the girl and he might blame you or his other friends for it. Then you have whole other problem Edited by Ssj3vegito96, Jun 8 2015, 01:36 AM.
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| + Pyrus | Jun 8 2015, 01:41 AM Post #10 |
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There's no reason to blame your friends if your relationship ends because you try to spend more time with them. That's a problem between you and the girl you were with. |
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| Hurry My Curry | Jun 8 2015, 05:06 AM Post #11 |
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The only time this kind of behavior irks me is in one scenario. I completely understand if you had prior plans and that's why you're flaking on us. But I hate when I hit up a friend, ask him what he's doing and he answers with this: "I'm not sure dude, I might be hanging out with my gf tonight". Basically this is telling me that he has no plans but he would drop what he was doing with us if his gf called. |
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| Cal | Jun 8 2015, 05:41 AM Post #12 |
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Bros before hoes. |
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| + Pyrus | Jun 8 2015, 06:01 AM Post #13 |
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That irks me too. If you have no current plans, and I'm asking right now to hang out, come hang out. There you go. If your girl calls later, tell her you had prior engagements and you'll be with her when you're done. That shouldn't be a huge issue, and if it is, maybe have a sit down pow-wow with her and duke it out. Like "damn, girl, you didn't call me up until I was in the middle of shooting hoops and you expect me to drop everything to come watch Netflix with you. Wait your turn." Edited by Pyrus, Jun 8 2015, 06:02 AM.
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| lucrowe | Jun 8 2015, 07:30 AM Post #14 |
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LOL! I knew it was a matter of time before someone said that. Nah its not even about bros before hoes. It's more bros as well as hoes! Like I said before, i know how it is when you get a girl you gotta spend allot of time with her, but just reserve a little for the lads! One night of the week, one measly hoop sesh even! Don't be dodging phone calls and s***. We're mates, we closer than that! |
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| + Steve | Jun 8 2015, 10:41 AM Post #15 |
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I think it's important to still hang out with your friends over your partner or else they get too attached and whenever you do go hang with your friends it's all "Why don't you want to spend time with ME?" "You never want to spend time with ME" "Go play with your friends if they're so damn important...I'll be fine, here...alone" Causes problems, especially early on. Especially bad when one party is basically always on the leash, never allowed to go out with friends but other can do whatever they want without facing scrutiny. Best to try get him out of it otherwise it'll destroy his relationship with you and his other friends...and his manhood. Plus if he's totally alienated from his friends like a year from now and they break up he has nothing, not a good place to be. |
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